times change.......

It' sad when people whom you know become people you knew, when you can walk right past someone like they never a big part of your life. How you used to be able to talk for hours and now you can barely even look at them... It's sad how times change. But, there comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore and who always will. So, don't worry about people from you past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

Random

Isn't it ironic..we I G N O R E those who A D O R E U S adore those who ignore us H U R T T H O S E who love us and L o v e those who hurt us?

There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all th pointless drama and the people who create it and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.

Falling out of LOVE!

"It's weird how you go from being strangers to being friends to being more then friends to being practically strangers again...and it all happens so fast. "

How does it happen? How do you fall out of love with somebody?How does it happen happen with the person whom you loved with all your heart, ? Now you just don't have the love you once had for them. How do you not have the love for that person for whom you were head over heels? What makes your loved one seem like a stranger?It really is weird how you can seem to think that you know a person so well, then things go sour between you and all of a sudden you can't seem to understand or recognize this person at all? How do you fall out of love with someone? My friend Jen said, if you fall out of love with someone, that means you weren't in love with them to begin with. I don't think so. I think that you don't fall out of it but that after time... yes it does change... but it never fully goes away. You still love the person. Its just not romantic anymore, it changes to a platonic kind of love.

But then again everybody assumes that "love" and "being in love" is the same thing.... and its not. I was involved in a very long relationship. We loved each other and knew we wanted it to be forever. I thought I'd marry him and do the white picket fence thing, you know. Big house with white picket fence, puppies and SUV's. It was almost like an obsession, we both had to talk to each other until our phone bills hit the roof and see each other whenever possible and just do sweet things every chance to one up the other. Eventually, things didn't seem to be so great and after months of stress we decided to put the brakes on our relationship and let things cool off for a while. Yes, I still love him and I always will. Am I in love with him? No, I can't say that I am. He hurt me like no other man could and after months of making myself sick over trying to make things right, I just don't have that kind of emotion left in me for him. So yeah, I believe it is very possible to "fall out of love" but if you simply love someone you'll always have that emotion deep down inside. It was there in the beginning and its not going away simply because you're not in a relationship or you disagree with things they said or did. I have struggled with this for years because you can love someone and not be "in love" with them. I really believe that falling in love and being in love are two very different things. People should consider these things before they start professing how deeply they love someone. I try and only use the word when I believe it truly applies. But then there is always a question how do you know who's 'The One'. What is true love? Well, I believe you will just know in your heart when you are in love.
You like a person for his qualities, but you love a person with his shortcomings. Love is in the air when you are willing to lay your life down & stand by that person side to end of time regardless of anything. Love is not at all about "whom one is sleeping with & we have a child together"...there is a more lot to this thing we call love. I believe in that 'Agape Love' - that unconditional love. My happily married sis said there will be rocky battles but we have to stand strong & be able to overcome. Because no matter what its always worth it. True love awaits.

mmmmm....

He swept his arms around her. 'Come on, have dinner with me. Come and have me.

21st birthday .................big deal

ok so i turn 21 today, and i was curious and excited..it always seems to me that the girls always have more fun, or its a bigger deal. for me, i really don't care, its another year...

Is it only "wow i can drink legally woop-dee-doo!"

Well, it's a personal opinion left up to the individual. It is just how much importance someone heaps upon that "landmark". You obviously are more mature than most in the "WAHOO LET"S DRINK" department. Now, if you'll excuse me, I need another rum and coke. (WINKS)

21 is a "big deal" age - just because the stereotype is all 21 yr olds drink & party - you can have fun with out the "party"..... or depending on finances - treat yourself to a spa day...
Sooooooooooo
Grab 1-2 close friends and try going to Ocean for few days, flying to Las Vegas (good rates right now), rock climbing in New York....


Happy 21st Birthday!

P.S. i m drunk

SEXY

What is Sexy?

Sexy is standing in the rain as you push me up against the hood of your car, tearing my shirt as you kiss me, with the intent to never stop.

I understand that Scissors can beat Paper, and I get how Rock can beat Scissors, but there's no fucking way Paper can beat Rock. Paper is supposed to magically wrap around Rock leaving it immobile? Why the hell can't paper do this to scissors? Screw scissors, why can't paper do this to people? Why isn't notebook paper constantly suffocating students while they take notes in class? I'll tell you why: because paper can't beat anybody; a rock would tear that shit up in 2 seconds. When I play rock/paper/scissors, I always choose rock. Then when somebody claims to beat me with their paper I can punch them in the face with my already clenched fist and say, "Oh shit, I'm sorry. I thought paper would protect you, you asshole!"