Random

A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. Never leave that till tomorrow, he said, which you can do today. This is the man who discovered electricity. You think more people would listen to what he had to say. I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo? The early bird catches the worm. A stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we hadn't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin really meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.

Sigh!!!

At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this thing, where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, is usually a load of bull. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them, the people that are still with you at the end of the day - those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.

Where's my Vampire? P.S. Bite me!

Oh boy...I am unconditionally and irrevocably in love with Edward Cullen.

Yes, I'm not ashamed of it: I'm absolutely in love with the Twilight series.

Do you remember the absolute hopelessness and depression you felt when you realized you were a "muggle" and that you would, in actuality, not be able to attend "Hogwarts"?

Well, that's what I'm feeling right now after Twilight.

Where is my Edward Cullen? Where is my breathtakingly beautiful vampire love? Where is the werewolf BFF of mine? One who wants to steal me away from my one true vampire love? Why is no one waging war or fighting over my awesome self?!

After seeing Edward's crooked smile on screen, i almost died and went to vampire heaven - Edward Cullen= PERFECT ..
and if i had to choose anyone to phase me into the vampire world, it would definitely have to be Robert Pattinson and his beautiful crooked smile ... *droooooooooooooollll*

I am totally head-over-heels in LOVE with Edward Cullen aka Robert Pattinson
WHY....
Because he's EDWARD CULLEN!!!!
Because he is VAMPIRE
Because he would DIE for you.
Because he buys cool cars for the people he loves.
Because he sings you to sleep. *awwww*
Because he promises 'Forever'
Because, inwardly, I have a thing for blood play
Because he's not the hero, he's the bad guy.
Because his crooked smile makes you forget to breathe
Because he has perfect handwriting.
Because he makes sarcasm sexy.
Because he will purchase a bed for you, even though he never sleeps
Because he has perfect handwriting.
Because he growls.
Because they just don't make them like that in this century SIGH!
Because he's unique in a cool, un-emo/goth/schoolshooter way.
Because he has pretty eyes. (that change colors!) *swoons*
Because he can stay up all night. *winks*
Because he will never leave you, even if you kiss another guy.
Because mood swings are hot.
Because he's rock-hard. (don't bother giggling, the pun is intended)
Because he watches you in your sleep.
Because he says the word 'sexy' on occasion
Because he drives over the speed-limit. (Aha)
Because he loves his family.
Because he's old fashioned.
Because he's Edward Cullen, dammit!

Conspicuous Consumption

American advertising has always embraced illusion approach.In their constant quest to attract consumers and associate products with “cool” or luxurious and hedonistic lifestyles, some advertisers have consistently pushed the boundaries of what is ethically and socially acceptable.Media ads and campaigns often blur the distinction between reality and unreality.

There are many controversies which focus on the societal effects of advertising. For instance, does advertising make us more materialistic? Does it force us to buy things we don’t need? Does it reach us subliminally in ways we can’t control? How does it affect the art and culture of our society? Does advertising debase our language?

In the free-market system, consumers can choose the values they want in the products they buy. If, for example, low price is important, they can buy an inexpensive economy car. If status and luxury are important, they can buy a fancy sedan or racy sports car. Many of our wants are emotional, social, or psychological rather than functional. One way we communicate who we are (or want to be) is through the products we purchase and display. By associating the product with some desirable image, advertising offers people the opportunity to satisfy those psychic or symbolic wants and needs.

Advertisements on television are designed to make you feel included in a group if you buy a product; that’s why ads use attractive people, so on some level you’ll believe that you are in that group if you buy the product they’re selling. We are a society consumed by consumerism. It is sad to say that, but it becomes truer each day. Consumerism can be defined as the tendency of people to identify strongly with products they consume, particularly of name brands and status-enhancing appeal. With the marketing world growing larger by day it seems more and more people are attracted to the advertised products and feel the need to have them in order to keep in style with the rest of society. The term “conspicuous consumption” applies to those people who show off their products in order to show their wealth. These people who show off their expensive clothing, jewelry, or cars are trying to make an impression on people. We live in a highly materialistic culture in which conspicuous consumption governs much of our lives. We strive to acquire goods which will define us to ourselves and to others and somehow satisfy our human need to justify existence.

times change.......

It' sad when people whom you know become people you knew, when you can walk right past someone like they never a big part of your life. How you used to be able to talk for hours and now you can barely even look at them... It's sad how times change. But, there comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore and who always will. So, don't worry about people from you past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

Random

Isn't it ironic..we I G N O R E those who A D O R E U S adore those who ignore us H U R T T H O S E who love us and L o v e those who hurt us?

There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all th pointless drama and the people who create it and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.

Falling out of LOVE!

"It's weird how you go from being strangers to being friends to being more then friends to being practically strangers again...and it all happens so fast. "

How does it happen? How do you fall out of love with somebody?How does it happen happen with the person whom you loved with all your heart, ? Now you just don't have the love you once had for them. How do you not have the love for that person for whom you were head over heels? What makes your loved one seem like a stranger?It really is weird how you can seem to think that you know a person so well, then things go sour between you and all of a sudden you can't seem to understand or recognize this person at all? How do you fall out of love with someone? My friend Jen said, if you fall out of love with someone, that means you weren't in love with them to begin with. I don't think so. I think that you don't fall out of it but that after time... yes it does change... but it never fully goes away. You still love the person. Its just not romantic anymore, it changes to a platonic kind of love.

But then again everybody assumes that "love" and "being in love" is the same thing.... and its not. I was involved in a very long relationship. We loved each other and knew we wanted it to be forever. I thought I'd marry him and do the white picket fence thing, you know. Big house with white picket fence, puppies and SUV's. It was almost like an obsession, we both had to talk to each other until our phone bills hit the roof and see each other whenever possible and just do sweet things every chance to one up the other. Eventually, things didn't seem to be so great and after months of stress we decided to put the brakes on our relationship and let things cool off for a while. Yes, I still love him and I always will. Am I in love with him? No, I can't say that I am. He hurt me like no other man could and after months of making myself sick over trying to make things right, I just don't have that kind of emotion left in me for him. So yeah, I believe it is very possible to "fall out of love" but if you simply love someone you'll always have that emotion deep down inside. It was there in the beginning and its not going away simply because you're not in a relationship or you disagree with things they said or did. I have struggled with this for years because you can love someone and not be "in love" with them. I really believe that falling in love and being in love are two very different things. People should consider these things before they start professing how deeply they love someone. I try and only use the word when I believe it truly applies. But then there is always a question how do you know who's 'The One'. What is true love? Well, I believe you will just know in your heart when you are in love.
You like a person for his qualities, but you love a person with his shortcomings. Love is in the air when you are willing to lay your life down & stand by that person side to end of time regardless of anything. Love is not at all about "whom one is sleeping with & we have a child together"...there is a more lot to this thing we call love. I believe in that 'Agape Love' - that unconditional love. My happily married sis said there will be rocky battles but we have to stand strong & be able to overcome. Because no matter what its always worth it. True love awaits.

mmmmm....

He swept his arms around her. 'Come on, have dinner with me. Come and have me.

21st birthday .................big deal

ok so i turn 21 today, and i was curious and excited..it always seems to me that the girls always have more fun, or its a bigger deal. for me, i really don't care, its another year...

Is it only "wow i can drink legally woop-dee-doo!"

Well, it's a personal opinion left up to the individual. It is just how much importance someone heaps upon that "landmark". You obviously are more mature than most in the "WAHOO LET"S DRINK" department. Now, if you'll excuse me, I need another rum and coke. (WINKS)

21 is a "big deal" age - just because the stereotype is all 21 yr olds drink & party - you can have fun with out the "party"..... or depending on finances - treat yourself to a spa day...
Sooooooooooo
Grab 1-2 close friends and try going to Ocean for few days, flying to Las Vegas (good rates right now), rock climbing in New York....


Happy 21st Birthday!

P.S. i m drunk

SEXY

What is Sexy?

Sexy is standing in the rain as you push me up against the hood of your car, tearing my shirt as you kiss me, with the intent to never stop.

I understand that Scissors can beat Paper, and I get how Rock can beat Scissors, but there's no fucking way Paper can beat Rock. Paper is supposed to magically wrap around Rock leaving it immobile? Why the hell can't paper do this to scissors? Screw scissors, why can't paper do this to people? Why isn't notebook paper constantly suffocating students while they take notes in class? I'll tell you why: because paper can't beat anybody; a rock would tear that shit up in 2 seconds. When I play rock/paper/scissors, I always choose rock. Then when somebody claims to beat me with their paper I can punch them in the face with my already clenched fist and say, "Oh shit, I'm sorry. I thought paper would protect you, you asshole!"

"So, are you seeing anyone?" I was asked this question for the umpteenth time this week. And, as usual exasperatedly I gave my "single-and-loving-it" speech. What's the big deal about being single? Why Pity me? For Heaven’s sake I am just 20. How many times my friends and family love to set me up with blind dates (and we all know how satisfying those are).

Oh dear, Bridget Jones Syndrome alert!

Why is being single obsessed over continually by society? So what if you don’t have someone to rant everything to. So what if you don’t have sex on a regular basis. So what if you don’t have a reason to shave your legs. So what if you’ll have to get out the vibrators more often. So what? I am very happy with my life. I do not "reject" relationships; I just don't go out looking for one. Sure, love can be a wonderful thing, but it's also super-complicated (just ask your bud who's buggin' about her BF 24/7).

It isn’t that men don’t interest me; it’s just that most of them cannot hold my interest for long. (I just get bored very easily.) When your expectations are high, disappointment comes easily.

By living the fabulous single life, I automatically cancel that inevitable guy-fueled drama out of my world. Did I mention being single equals unlimited flirting? Sweet!
Single life can be the most exciting time of your life. I can slump around the house in any old thing. I have to cope with not getting a huge phone bill at the end of the month. I can go out and flirt as much as my heart desires, without a worry in the world

I can finally see all the good videos – the romantic, cheesy films. I don't have to stroke the fragile male ego, and other things. I don’t check with someone to see if 'its okay' to tell someone yes or no to an invitation. I can accept on the spot. No one is going to get insulted if I spend the day at the beach checking out the lifeguards. (Winks!) I don't have to worry if he will or won't call. I can spend your paycheck on what you want. “No snoring.” I am forced to enjoy and give an episode of Grey’s Anatomy my undivided attention. It doesn’t seem to be all that bad.

So…….I'm Sexy and Single. Make your move if you want. Doesn't mean I will or won't.

"The best reason for being single is: Vibrators don't talk back, you can turn them off and on, and they don't stop until they are through serving their purpose."

Rhea

I am a real romantic and have a great taste for the exiotic. I love feeling sea breeze in my hair, sun on my skin…..Slip those shoes off…I like to kick back. I like people to be well groomed, with a tight bod and heaps of sex appeal.As for music, its my soundtrack to the world. I like to unwind and switch off: it gives me a break from reality. I love being a little bit naughty. Being good all the time is a bore. I have got a good sense of fun and maybe an infectious giggle. I don’t have rules, and I don’t like restrictions. I make my own choices, and do as I please. For me pleasure always comes first.

The comfort of being loved makes me feel free with my words – I am a love bug. I am real romantic and a bit of dreamer. OK, life may not be a movie, but what’s wrong with thinking it is?I place real importance on friendships. I am family minded, and forge strong relationships.

It is difficult to predict what will upset me, so when I do lose my cool, people don't know how to react. My temper is like that of a raging bull, and anyone trying to pacify me will be the first one to get a verbal bashing. I generally get upset when I am are cornered or when people accuse me of doing something wrong. I also hate being reminded about mistakes I have made in the past. I also have the potential to be terribly vindictive if rubbed the wrong way.

I completely believe in Mr. Forest Gump's words "Life’s like a box of a chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get."